“Fulfillment happens when you stop chasing and start aligning.”
Live and Love Without Losing Yourself.
Reclaim your self-trust, needs, and truth—and finally
create the life and relationships you long for.
You're confident, capable, and respected in your professional life—so why does love feel so confusing, one-sided, or painful?
Maybe you’ve asked yourself…
Why do I feel so competent everywhere else but powerless in love?
Why do I give so much and still feel unmet, unseen, or alone?
Why can’t I shake the self-doubt, even with everything I’ve accomplished?
The truth is, it’s not because you’re broken.
It’s because the tools that make you successful in your career don’t translate to intimacy.
You don’t need to become less of who you are to be loved.
You need to come home to who you truly are—and lead from there.
Does This Sound Like You?
You Give and Give... only to feel more resentful and unappreciated.
You Doubt Your Worth despite all your successes—especially when it comes to relationships.
You Punish or Withdraw when you don’t get the love or respect you crave.
You’re Confused and Exhausted trying to juggle demanding work life with an unfulfilling relationship.
You’re Longing for More—more safety, more security, more joy—with someone who truly sees and values you.
But here’s the truth:
You’re not broken. You’re not too much. And you’re definitely not alone.
You’ve just been operating from misalignment—doing everything you can to feel loved, safe, and seen… while losing touch with your own needs, voice, and power in the process.
Live and Love in Authentic Alignment
Let’s transform your patterns, reclaim your voice, and create the relationships and life that reflect the real you—your values, needs, standards and boundaries.
You don’t have to settle for confusion, over-functioning, or emotional exhaustion.
I’ll help you realign—with yourself, your worth, and your power.
You’re not too much. You’re just tired of not being met.
You’re a high-functioning, heart-centered human who’s exhausted from:
Over-explaining your needs
Second-guessing yourself in relationships
Feeling deeply capable in most areas—but anxious, resentful, or confused in love
If you’re done abandoning yourself to keep others comfortable...
You’re in the right place.
Hi, I’m Dara. And I help people live in deep alignment—with themselves and their relationships.
As an Alignment Strategist and Certified Coach, I work with both men and women who are ready to stop over-functioning in love and start living, loving, and leading in full alignment with their truth.
Together, we’ll:
Heal the root of your relational patterns
Rebuild self-trust and emotional clarity
Create a life that feels like home—within and without
Work With Me
Choose the level of support that meets you where you are.
Clarity Call – $97
A 45-minute session to clarify your patterns and next step.
Insight Session – $225
One powerful session to unpack what’s keeping you stuck.
The Reset – 3 Sessions – $645
Break old patterns and realign your relationship with yourself.
The Realignment – 6 Sessions – $1195
A deeper transformation to embody aligned living and loving.
8-Week Authentic Alignment Program – $2500
A full-body, full-heart reset to live as your truest self—inside and out.
Start With My Bestselling Workbook: No More Unmet Needs
A powerful step-by-step guide to help you:
Clarify your emotional needs
Understand why they’re going unmet
Determine whether your partner can (or wants to) meet them
If you’re feeling unseen or confused in your relationship, this is the place to start.
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You don’t have to keep carrying it all alone.
Your alignment is the gateway to everything—clarity, love, peace, and real self-trust.
Let’s start with one honest conversation.
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XO,
Dara
“Dara is a budding genius who could save hundreds of marriages and positively impact thousands of lives. Our marriage could have ended, we were really at the end of our rope, and we both feel Dara's uncommon level of competence saved our marriage.” —Rob, Los Angeles
Allow Me to Be Your Catalyst for Authentic Alignment
As an Alignment Strategist, I help people break free from patterns that keep them over-functioning, under-receiving, and out of sync with who they truly are. My work is about guiding you back into harmony—where your actions, relationships, and goals finally feel like they fit.
Whether it's your love life, career, or sense of self, I’ll help you reconnect with the version of you who knows what she needs, trusts her voice, and lives with clarity and conviction.
Working with me is not about surface fixes. It's a powerful, compassionate journey inward—where we uncover the unconscious beliefs and emotional habits that have kept you stuck, and begin building something far more aligned, grounded, and freeing in their place.
We'll walk straight into the patterns holding you back—not with shame, but with curiosity and courage. Together, we'll clear what no longer serves you and create space for something truer to take root.
If you're ready to stop abandoning yourself and start living in full alignment—with your values, your desires, and your worth—I'm here to walk that path with you.
Let’s begin the most important work you’ll ever do: becoming the version of you who no longer settles for anything less than truth, peace, and self-honoring love.
With you all the way.
XO,
Dara
What clients are saying
"Dara helped me dig deep and find the way back to my true self. I never thought I would want or need a life coach but now I can't believe how people go through life without one! Dara helped me to discover my true values and strengths and how to use them to balance all aspects of my life, from personal and professional relationships to spirituality."
"Dara is so easy to talk to and I felt a connection right away. I definitely felt comfortable sharing with her and being vulnerable, which is something I needed. Working with her has made me more confident in myself and I stopped ignoring myself. When I take care of me, I can take care of those I love.”
"The impact of coaching with Dara has been transformative. I feel like I am a new person, in the context of myself and my relationship. I feel so proud of myself and capable. These were feelings I struggled to connect with before the coaching process. I couldn't have done it so quickly and enduringly without her help."
A workbook to help you stop second-guessing your emotional needs—and finally get the clarity and connection you deserve.
You’re not needy. You’re not broken.
You’re just tired of feeling unseen, unheard, and emotionally unfulfilled—especially in relationships where you give so much.
If you’re constantly asking yourself:
Am I expecting too much?
Why do I keep feeling disappointed, even though though I’ve been patient?
Is this about my communication—or are my needs simply not being met?
This workbook was made for you.
What You’ll Walk Away With
By the end of this workbook, you’ll have:
Clear insight into why your emotional needs are going unmet
A deeper understanding of the needs that truly matter to you
Clarity around whether your partner can—or wants to—meet them
Relief from self-blame and confusion
A foundation to either shift the relationship—or walk away—with peace and power
What’s Inside
This 16-page digital workbook includes:
A 4-step process to help you uncover your true needs and desires
Reflective exercises to explore what you actually need (vs. what you’ve been taught to want)
A framework for discerning someone’s ability and willingness to meet your needs
A simple, clear approach for having a needs-based conversation that invites honesty and alignment
Who This Is For
This workbook is for you if:
You often feel like the emotional caretaker in your relationship
You’re exhausted from over-explaining, over-accommodating, and over-functioning
You feel confused about whether to keep trying or let go
You want clarity without shame, blame, or bypassing your feelings
You’re ready to stop wondering and start honoring your truth
Why This Matters
Because emotional needs don’t disappear when they’re ignored—they just turn into resentment, anxiety, confusion, and disconnection.
You don’t have to keep wondering whether you’re asking for too much.
You don’t have to keep trying harder in a relationship that can’t meet you.
You don’t have to keep betraying yourself in the name of patience, hope, or love.
Join Over 1,800 People Who’ve Used This Workbook to Find Clarity, Confidence, and Emotional Peace
Whether you’re in a relationship, navigating a breakup, or trying to make sense of long-held patterns, this workbook will help you come back to yourself—and your needs—with compassion, courage, and clarity.
14-Day Satisfaction Guarantee:
If you go through the workbook, apply the steps, and don’t find it valuable, just email me within 14 days for a full refund—no questions asked.
Start now for just $12
This is a digital PDF. Instant download. Fillable. Yours forever.
No shipping. No fluff. Just truth, clarity, and powerful inner work.
XO,
Dara