🌿 Coaching That Gets to the Root
Reclaim your voice. Clarify your needs. Experience the love, peace, and self-respect you’ve been longing for.
You don’t need another self-help book or podcast full of surface-level strategies that leave you wondering what’s wrong with you.
What you need is real clarity—and someone who truly understands how to help you stop over-functioning, stop abandoning yourself, and start living from a place of deep, aligned truth and confidence.
Let’s turn your confusion and pain into clarity, connection, and peace that actually lasts.
That’s what embracing the mud is all about—recognizing your struggles not as signs of failure, but as invitations to grow, realign, and rise.
Together, we’ll use what feels heavy or messy as the material that helps you become the version of yourself who creates the love, fulfillment, and freedom you’ve always deserved.
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You’re Not Broken. You’re Just Out of Alignment.
If you’re feeling:
Alone—while carrying the emotional weight of the relationship
Unloved—despite doing everything you can to show your love
Resentful—but still trying to be “the bigger person”
Exhausted—by how hard you try to meet everyone’s needs but your own
Then hear this:
You’re not too much.
You’re just doing too much—without giving yourself full permission to receive, rest, or be real.
Your needs aren’t the problem.
Abandoning yourself to earn love is.
What Alignment Feels Like
After this work, my clients walk away feeling:
Clear and grounded in who they are and what they need
Confident setting and enforcing boundaries with love
Assured in their worthiness, even when others disappoint them
Aligned in their relationships, careers, and choices—because they’re no longer betraying themselves for peace
"Dara has a healing, guiding, and trusting energy that makes you feel comfortable, open, and thankful in her presence. Working with her has genuinely changed my life, allowing me to accept and love myself like never before." -Neal, NY
What Makes This Work Different
Most advice focuses on communication skills or relationship strategies.
This work goes deeper.
I help you stop performing for love and start living in authentic alignment—where self-respect is the norm—not a negotiation.
We’ll explore your patterns with compassion, uncover where you’ve been abandoning yourself, and shift the way you show up—so that your life and relationships begin to reflect your truth—your worth, values, needs, desires and boundaries.
This isn’t about quick fixes. It’s about lasting freedom.
This Is for You If…
You feel like you’re doing everything right, but still feel unfulfilled in love or life
You’re tired of over-functioning, people-pleasing, or second-guessing your needs
You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, and journaled—but still feel stuck
You crave deeper clarity, stronger boundaries, and more emotional peace
You’re ready to break free from patterns that no longer serve you
You want to align your life, relationships, and choices with who you really are—not who you’ve had to be
If you read that list and felt a little spark or lump in your throat—you’re in the right place.
This Is Not for You If…
You’re looking for quick fixes without doing inner work
You want someone to tell you what to do instead of guiding you inward
You're not ready to take responsibility for your patterns, beliefs, or boundaries
You’re unwilling to explore discomfort, emotional honesty, or personal accountability
You’re still hoping someone else will change so you can finally feel better
This work is powerful—but it requires courage, self-reflection, and a real desire to grow. If you’re ready, I’m here for it. All of it.
Choose the Path That’s Right for You
Insight Session – 1 Session – $225
A single 75-minute coaching session to break through one specific challenge.
Perfect for:
Untangling a relationship dynamic that has you stuck
Clarifying your needs and boundaries in a tough situation
Getting an intuitive, insightful perspective you can’t access on your own
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The Reset – 3 Sessions – $645
A 3 session coaching package to help you reset your relationship with yourself and others.
Over 3 75-minute sessions, we’ll:
Identify what’s keeping you in misaligned dynamics
Build self-awareness and emotional strength
Support you in showing up with more truth and less fear
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The Realignment – 6 Sessions –$1,195
A deeper dive into breaking patterns, reclaiming power, and embodying your self-worth.
In these 6 75-minute sessions, we’ll:
Unpack and heal your relationship patterns
Create new emotional frameworks and relational standards
Build sustainable confidence and clarity
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8-Week Total Alignment Program – $2500
If you’re ready to fully transform your relationship with yourself, your patterns, and the life you’ve been quietly settling for—this is the container for you.
Over 8 powerful weeks, I’ll guide you through the core pillars of Authentic Alignment—addressing the beliefs, behaviors, and blind spots that keep you stuck in misaligned love, self-doubt, and self-abandonment.
This isn’t surface-level healing. We leave no room for internal misalignment to hide.
You’ll emerge clearer, stronger, and more connected to who you truly are—and what you truly want.
Includes:
Weekly 90-minute 1:1 coaching sessions with me
Daily integration homework (5–30 min/day)
A clear structure to guide your internal shift
Support between sessions through email or text
Custom lessons to help you embody alignment and self-honoring in your real, everyday life
This program is for you if you're ready to:
Stop shape-shifting to earn love
Heal what drives your self-abandonment
Cultivate peace, power, and purpose from the inside out
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Still Not Sure Which Path Is Right?
Let’s figure it out together.
Book a 45-Minute Clarity Call – $97
We’ll get to the root of what’s keeping you stuck and give you the insight and direction you need to move forward—with or without coaching.
This is a low-pressure space to get support and see if we’re a good fit.
And if you decide to join the 8-Week Total Alignment Program, the full $97 will be credited toward your enrollment.
💛 A Note from Me to You
You’re not here by accident.
If something in your life or relationships feels off, it’s because you’re being called back into alignment.
I know what it’s like to feel lost, unloved, and unsure of yourself—even while looking like you “have it all together.”
But I also know the power of choosing yourself—again and again—until your life begins to reflect that choice.
This is the work. This is the way. And I’d be honored to walk it with you.
— Dara
Ready to Begin?
Start where you are.
Book a session, explore the program, or let’s just talk it through.
You don’t have to keep carrying this alone. Let’s get you back into alignment—so you can stop proving your worth, and start honoring it instead.
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“Don't compromise yourself. You're all you've got.”
— Janis Joplin
“Dara's sessions were like masterclasses in relational skill-building: I was able to learn how to better understand my own wiring and spot when it was serving me and when it wasn't.”
—Cullen, NYC
“Dara is rare. I’m not new to coaching and I’m extremely selective with whom I choose to invest my time and money. After working with Dara, I feel very optimistic about my success in future relationships.”
—Wendy, D.C.
FAQs
Is the Total Alignment Journey customized to my situation?
Yes! The Total Alignment program follows an 8-aspect framework, but the way we apply it is completely personal to you. These eight aspects serve as guiding principles rather than a rigid curriculum—each week, we’ll use them as lenses to explore your unique situation, whether you're navigating relationship struggles, rebuilding after a breakup, questioning whether to stay or leave, struggling with self-esteem, feeling unfulfilled, or seeking more purpose and direction.
No two journeys look the same because no two people are the same. Our work together will help you uncover what’s keeping you stuck, gain clarity on what you truly need and want, and make aligned choices that move you toward greater confidence, peace, and fulfillment.
By the end of our time together, you won’t just have processed what you’re going through—you’ll have the tools, self-trust, and clarity to create a life that truly feels like yours.
If you have any other questions about how this applies to you, feel free to reach out—I’m happy to help!