mission, story and beliefs
Hey there! I'm Dara Poznar, and I'm thrilled to be your Certified Life Coach & Alignment Strategist. My approach to coaching is a unique blend of coaching, teaching, and mentoring, infused with inspiration, empathy, and playfulness.
Mission:
My mission is to empower individuals to live authentically by aligning their choices and actions with their true selves, creating lives of fulfillment and joy. I strive to guide you through the challenges of disconnection and self-doubt, helping you build meaningful relationships and achieve a balanced, purpose-driven life.
My broader mission is to foster a world where authentic living inspires positive change, creating ripple effects that enhance collective well-being and harmony. By helping individuals align with their true selves, I aim to contribute to a global movement of greater empathy, understanding, and meaningful connections.
Story:
My journey has been anything but conventional, and it’s this rich background that fuels my passion for helping others achieve alignment, confidence, and genuine connection in their lives.
As a first-generation American with Polish immigrant parents, my early life was shaped by unique and challenging experiences. I was raised in a cult from ages 13 to 23, an environment that profoundly impacted my self-esteem and sense of identity. My family’s journey through alcoholism, divorce, and unconventional beliefs left me feeling disconnected and unworthy for many years.
Romantic relationships were particularly challenging. I found myself repeatedly seeking love and validation outside of myself, believing I needed union with another to feel whole. I was your classic over-functioning partner—always giving more than I got, hoping that if I just loved harder, I’d finally feel loved in return.
Yet, with each heartache and separation, I gradually discovered that the love I was desperately searching for had been within me all along. Through deep self-reflection, emotional healing, and learning to show up fully for myself, I realized that true alignment starts on the inside. Once I embraced the idea that I alone was the source of my worth, it transformed everything—from how I approach relationships to how I show up in the world.
Despite these obstacles, I found strength and resilience through friendships, which have been a constant source of support and joy. In my mid-30s, I trained as a coach and embarked on a transformative journey of personal growth, emotional healing, and relationship mastery. The trials I faced shaped my passion for guiding others to discover their own resilience and move toward authentic self-love and alignment.
Today, I’m focused on nurturing my inner world, celebrating who I am, and supporting others as they do the same. My experiences have taught me that no matter how challenging the past, it does not define who you are today or who you can become.
In my private time, you'll find me doting on my insanely cute dogs, Lula & Evie, planning beach trips, going for long walks, and immersing myself in podcasts, books, music, and writing.
Beliefs:
My personal mantra, "No Mud, No Lotus," embodies the idea that just as the lotus emerges from muddy waters, our challenges lead to profound growth and transformation. Embracing life’s difficulties allows us to uncover our inner strengths and fully embrace our authentic selves. It’s about thriving with confidence and purpose, regardless of external conditions. I believe that our struggles are the fertile ground from which we evolve into extraordinary beings capable of realizing our deepest aspirations.
I also believe that true growth and development are rooted in self-love. By accepting and nurturing ourselves and others, and by fostering connections that support our well-being, we achieve a sense of wholeness. Living with intention, building meaningful relationships, and prioritizing our health are essential elements of a fulfilling life.
Success, in my view, is not a solitary journey. My own progress has been greatly influenced by the support of loved ones, my faith, and the guidance of counselors and coaches. If you’re looking for a trusted partner to help you make positive changes and navigate your path, I would be honored to assist you on your journey.
A quote that deeply inspires me and my work:
"The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are." — Carl Jung
As an Alignment Coach, I help you break free from the constraints that hold you back—whether they’re false beliefs, past hurts, societal expectations, or insecurities. My approach is all about guiding you to uncover your true self and align your life with your core values and desires. Together, we’ll work on shedding the limitations imposed by your upbringing, conditioning, and self-doubt, empowering you to live a life that feels genuinely authentic and fulfilling. It’s about liberating yourself from what’s been holding you back so you can embrace a life of freedom, clarity, and purpose.
I am committed to helping you:
Discover Your True Self: Gain clarity on your core values, passions, and purpose.
Transform Your Relationships: Create deep and authentic connections with others.
Experience Fulfillment and Joy: Cultivate a deeper sense of satisfaction in every area of your life.
Sending you love and support on your path to discovering your true self and creating a life that reflects your deepest values and passions!
XO,
Dara